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By Dr. Michael R. Harrington, MD
Last Updated Apr 24, 2026

— Reason 01 —

You're waking up more than twice a night

Two, three trips to the bathroom every night. And the same thought in every man's head: "It's just age." It's not.This condition has a name, nocturia, and its clinical threshold is clear: waking two or more times a night to urinate is pathological. The causes are medical: prostate issues, overactive bladder, urinary tract infections, alcohol, certain diuretics. 70% of men over 60 are affected. And most never bring it up. But these wake-ups are only the tip of the iceberg.

— Reason 02 —

You've cut back on water at night, or stopped drinking entirely.

You've stopped drinking after 7 PM. Logical: less water, fewer wake-ups. The opposite happens. When fluid intake drops, urine becomes concentrated. And concentrated urine irritates the bladder lining: one of the mechanisms that worsens overactive bladder. You drink less, you wake up just as often. Sometimes more. Chronic dehydration also raises the risk of urinary tract infections and kidney stones, and may impair kidney function over time. You cut the water. You added the diaper. And yet, the problem stays. Because the diaper, too, is part of the problem.

— Reason 03 —

You're sleeping in plastic.

That's what most men wear every night against the most intimate skin of their body, during the hours they sleep. Plastic on the outside, which keeps the leaks in, but also keeps the skin from breathing. And on the inside: a synthetic compound derived from acrylic acid, which turns into gel on contact with liquid. Diapers are noisy, unsightly, uncomfortable. But above all, they trap heat and moisture. Urine stays in contact with the skin, and the inside becomes a breeding ground for bacteria. This is maceration. And over time, this maceration assaults your body in two ways. The first is visible. The second, much less so.

— Reason 04 —

Your body endures two assaults every night. 

The first assault is on your skin. The skin inflammation caused by prolonged exposure to urine has an official name: incontinence-associated dermatitis, or IAD. It produces redness that can progress to open lesions. Nearly half of men with incontinence after 65 suffer from it. The second is invisible. It's in your deep sleep. It's during the first hours of uninterrupted sleep that nighttime testosterone is released, and that memory and mood are consolidated. A sleep fragmented by wake-ups, discomfort, heat or humidity keeps your body from reaching those phases. The result: you sleep 8 hours, but you barely recover.

— Reason 05 —

Each night makes the next one worse.

Here's the routine that has quietly taken hold: Urinary leaks wake you up. You drink less in the evening, urine becomes concentrated, the bladder grows more reactive. So you wear a diaper to protect yourself, but it macerates, damaging your skin and your deep sleep. You no longer recover, your body wears down, the leaks continue. Each cause becomes the effect of the next. And every night, the loop tightens. Few men realize they're caught in this mechanism. And until one link in the chain is broken, nothing stops. The most accessible link, the one you can change tonight, is what you wear to sleep.